The icing on the cake

Years ago when we were young and ambitious and thought we had a lot to prove, a friend of mine began to prepare a birthday celebration for his girlfriend. As on any birthday, the crown jewel of the celebration would be a cake, but this one would be her favorite...

Taking time

I dropped my daughter off at camp today, which is located about 35 miles north of where I live. Since I work about 35 miles south of where I live, camp day always means a lot of driving. Every year I feel rushed and guilty for arriving late on the job, so by the time...

More than a feeling

I have come to realize that feelings don’t count for much. What does count is the action–or inaction–that accompanies them. I’m not saying that feelings are worthless. On the contrary, feelings measure what is important to us, and they...