It's easy to sit on this side of the keyboard and write insightful anecdotes, but there's always more beneath the surface. And once in a while, someone will challenge me on it. Recently I joined an online writers' group and I love it. I feel validated, have a safe space to try new ideas, and... Continue Reading →
Baggage claims
In the flurry of activity following the announcement of Brian Flores' lawsuit against the NFL, I made the mistake of reading the comments that followed several of the articles. Yes, I know better, but I did it anyway. Unfortunately. Here we are in 2022 and we're still dealing with the same attitudes and beliefs that... Continue Reading →
Never forget
Yesterday I left my family's Thanksgiving festivities feeling full, not only of food, but also--and especially--of love and warmth and goodwill. Compared to most of the world, I have a lot. My modest house might need a good cleaning, but it keeps me safe from the elements and has more than enough room for my kids,... Continue Reading →
Youthful ideals
A thought struck me early this morning, and I haven't been able to let it go. As a rule (there are always exceptions), people's aspirations tend to diminish with age, and I don't think it's because they've accomplished everything on their list. Seriously, if you're over 40, I'll bet you've at least once rolled your... Continue Reading →
Kick in the pants
Over the past year, I've gotten away from my running routine and let my eating habits erode. You can guess what that's done to my shape; the wardrobe additions I've made in the past months look as if they belong in someone else's closet if you compare the new size tags to the old. I... Continue Reading →