There’s a new kind of salesmanship in town, and I think I like it. When I can find it, that is.
Not long ago, I received an assignment to write about a new company that offers sales training. Pretty standard stuff, I thought, so I scheduled the interview and went on about business.
My discussion with the owner was interesting. I won’t go into the full spiel, but the crux of the philosophy is to find the customer’s pain points and solve those problems. If your product/service doesn’t intersect, be honest about it. Don’t sell, solve problems. Don’t conduct the conversation to your benefit; conduct it to his benefit.
What this boils down to is that the salesperson has to get to know his customer. For the most part, that requires ingenuity and intuitiveness–that is, asking the right questions and making the right connections.
I thought all of this was fairly intuitive, but apparently not. You see, I bought a new car this weekend. I hadn’t exactly planned to do it, but I wouldn’t consider it a whim, either. I did a little homework to prepare myself and set off to my dealership of choice.
To be fair to the sales guy, he seemed to listen to me and did everything I asked. When I told him my parameters, he didn’t try to push me in a different direction. He just kept trying to find a solution that fit.
Unfortunately, his manager wasn’t of the same mind. (Why anyone still follows that high pressure, old-school process of hand-off/hand-up is beyond me, but that’s another blog post.) Although the manager had spent precisely ZERO time with me and couldn’t have understood my personality or motivation, he jumped into the conversation and took off, leaving me behind. He started throwing payment scenarios at me and wouldn’t shut up long enough to see what I, the CUSTOMER, was after. The resulting conversation was stilted and mutated, far from the equal exchange it should have been.
After all, he didn’t understand my pain, my motivators.
I wanted a new car, but I didn’t NEED one.
There’s a new driver in my household.
I have a dog whose coat doesn’t match the interior of the car I was considering.
I didn’t have a trade-in because I wanted to keep the old car, too.
I haven’t had a car payment in four years.
I want to be treated like an intelligent human being.
The numbers were important to me, but I needed to verify them for myself. This is a big purchase; I’m not going to take someone else’s word for rates, surcharges, etc.
I’m pretty sure he didn’t even catch my name.
This guy just swooped in, gave most of his attention to my dad, who was merely there as my ride so he could take my other car home if I decided to drive one off the lot. He wanted me to make a decision from estimated calculations, not actual fully disclosed worksheets. He didn’t have a clue as to why I wanted a new car or the factors that influenced my decision. In fact, he still doesn’t.
He never gave any indication that he cared about me or whatever issue I was trying to solve. And he didn’t know when to shut up.
In spite of that sales manager, I bought the car. The salesman and the finance guy–and the service department that has done right by me for years–tipped the balance. But if my decision had hinged solely upon the sales manager, I would have saved myself four hours (and a bunch of money), gone home, and sent the guy a link to that sales trainer.
In fact, I just might send that link anyway.
The worst part was looking to your dad. That infuriates me when I am not treated the same way as an older male is treated. You are a better woman than I because I would have walked out and bought my car somewhere else.
When I was a theater installer I learned VERY QUICKLY that the woman of the house not only was the one I’d deal with (because a lot of them were home, not always though,) but for the fact that I could EASILY explain WHAT they had and HOW TO OPERATE IT. And I also learned if I made friends with them, they usually came back to the store (now defunct, sadly,) and made other purchases. Even though I was the grunt pulling wire and making a mess of their house, for an hour or two.
Know your customer for sure. Find their wants, do what they want. They’ll come back.